Brief:
If we want God to answer our prayers, we should be living in obedience to Him.
Intro Question
Have you ever prayed
for God to help you with something? Does God answer every prayer? How do you
think God decides what prayers to say yes to and which ones He says no to?
Recap
You remember
that last week, we read about how the Philistines defeated the Israelites and
stole the ark of the covenant and took it to the temple of their false god,
Dagon. But God wouldn’t tolerate being put equal to Dagon, so He destroyed
Dagon’s statue.
Scripture: 1 Samuel
5:6-7; 7:1-13
Read 1 Samuel 5:6-7
The Philistines
eventually decided to return the ark of the covenant back to Israel, but the
Philistines were still ruling over Israel. Now, if Israel was God’s chosen
people, why would God let someone else conquer and rule over them?
Read 1 Samuel 7:1-3
What did Samuel tell
the people to do if they wanted God to help them against the Philistines? (He
told them to stop serving other gods and to turn back to God.)
The reason God let
the Israelites be conquered by the Philistines is that they weren’t serving Him. They were worshipping and serving other
gods, so God punished them by letting them get taken over. Now, God will help
them if they turn back to Him and put Him first. Remember that God will not let
Himself be second best.
Read 1 Samuel 7:4-13
When the people put
God first and committed to living the way God wanted them to live, God helped
them. He answered their prayer and defeated the Philistines.
I think that’s the
same way God works with us. Sometimes, we ask for God’s help, but we’re not
living the way God wants us to live, so why would He help us? Why would God do
something good for us when we’re doing bad to God by not doing what He says?
That’s not the only
reason that God doesn’t answer our prayers, but I would say that rule number
one is that if we want God to pay attention to us and help us, then we first
have to be living for Him. We can’t expect Him to help us if we’re
disrespecting Him all the time by not doing what He says.
If you want God to
help you, if you want to be successful like the Israelites were finally
successful, live the way God wants you to live. Putting other things before
God, as the Israelites with their false gods, is a recipe for disaster. But
when you live for God, He helps bring things together for you.
God only loves and does for who he wants no matter what you do or no matter how much and how long you suffer. THAT'S A FACT! No loving Father just turns his back on his child when they are hurting or suffering. God does. Just ask any child who is repeatedly raped or beaten. I guess God thought that was the love we needed.
ReplyDeleteJust ask yourself why so many people suffer on this earth. They're all bad people? A billion people ask the same story over and over and over of why God doesn't help me. Ask yourself why some people have millions of dollars but other don't have food and water. So God loves them? I live in reality. God only loves who he wants. The rest of us, too bad.
ReplyDeleteHi, John! I just noticed your comments. You bring up some good points. It's hard to think that God is good when He could help us now but doesn't. Our hope is that one day, when we're with Him in eternity, the joy that we're experiencing then will make us forget the pain that we experience now.
DeleteOur hope? I have no hope, God took care of that. God knows what I need? Ya, more anger, frustration and disappointment. Simply disgusting. Nobody loves like this.
DeleteI have no hope. I'm told God loves me. Try loving your spouse that way and see if she sticks around. He only loves who he wants. I've been lied to my whole life about God.
ReplyDeleteSTILL NOT AN ONCE OF RELIEF FROM GOD... OH BUT HE LOVES ME. WE ARE TAUGHT NOT TO LIE. GOD IS THE BIGGEST LIAR OF ALL. PERIOD!
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you're going through a rough time. I pray it gets better for you.
DeleteApparently your praying nor mine does anything. I'm supposed to worship God but no matter how much I suffer and it gets worse daily, God does NOTHING! That's love from our Father?
ReplyDeleteSTILL WON'T BUDGE. THIS IS A RECURRING THEME FROM SO MANY PEOPLE. BUT I WAS TAUGHT ALL MY LIFE THAT GOD LOVES ME. WHAT A LIAR!
ReplyDeleteI wonder if you would be willing to share the situation you're suffering with. What's going on? I ask because I'm curious to see if there's another solution besides God is being unfair.
ReplyDeleteApparently I've stumped you...
DeleteApparently you don't have another solution. Maybe before you talk, you should know someone's story.
DeleteJust like God you're nowhere to be found. He taught you well....
DeleteI have never been more miserable in my life. NOTHING will go my way. The first 17 1/2 years of my life were filled with me being stabbed by my Mother, guns to my head, brutally beaten, tortured... WHERE WAS GOD???????? Now I'm 57 years old and have never been more miserable. No matter what I want from the smallest thing to the biggest God won't budge. That's God's love for me? I beg, scream, plead you name it and God doesn't budge. God's supposed to know what I need? Well more hate and anger isn't it.
ReplyDeleteWould you treat your child you are supposed to love like that? Answer that.
ReplyDeleteAnd it's kind of funny how you always want to make it out to be the person's fault and not God. I guess I should have not been born then my Mother wouldn't have been able to brutalize me... Ya, that's it. You go your whole life trying to do the right things, help people, give to people... on and on. And God just keeps giving you shit but he'll allow monsters to prosper. That's a fact.
ReplyDeleteAnd when your child cries out over and over and over, God's answer is do nothing. That's his love we should feel? He can't even do the smallest thing to say, "Hey I love you" I know you are suffering. Oh no, not God. He says screw you, suffer. He proves that every day. I live in reality and that's my reality.
ReplyDeleteFor some reason, this website doesn't send me notifications when someone leaves a new comment, so I try to check it once a week. Anyway, sorry to leave you hanging. And I didn't mean to sound like anything is your fault that isn't. But I think there's a third solution for us to be able to say that God doesn't take away our problems, but He doesn't ignore us either. Instead, He gives us the strength to get through and overcome anything that happens to us.
ReplyDeleteGod hasn't given me anything but more anger, frustration and disappointment. That's a loving Father that I'm supposed to trust and worship?
ReplyDeleteWhat is it exactly that you're wanting God to do for you? Try to be specific. If you were to ask God, "I want you to do this, this, and this," what would you say?
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't matter what it is. I have never been more unhappy and frustrated in my life. And no matter what I try and do about it, nothing works. I'm not just sitting here doing nothing. But I can't just will things to happen. If I could I would have done it by now. This has been going on for years. I was brutally beaten, tortured, stabbed and had guns put to my head as a child. God wasn't there for me then and he sure isn't here for me now.
ReplyDeleteStill NOTHING! GOD IS A CRUEL LIAR! HE DOESN'T LOVE LIKE WE ARE TAUGHT. HE WILL TURN HIS BACK ON YOU NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU BEG. BUT HE DOESN'T TURN HIS BACK ON DOPE DEALERS AND RAPISTS. THEY GET WHATEVER THEY WANT.
ReplyDeleteJUST WHAT I NEED MORE HATE,ANGER AND DISAPPOINTMENT. OH, BUT GOD KNOWS WHAT I NEED... YA, THAT'S A LOVING GOD.
ReplyDeleteGOD LOVES ME... TRY LOVING YOUR SPOUSE THE WAY GOD LOVES YOU. THEY WOULDN'T STICK AROUND. NOBODY THAT LOVES SOMEBODY WILL JUST TURN THEIR BACK ON YOU BUT GOD DOES. HE'S A LIAR!
ReplyDeleteANOTHER DAY AND THE SAME GARBAGE. OH YA BUT GOD LOVES ME... WHAT A LIAR!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteGOD IS STILL A CRUEL LIAR!!!!!
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