Sermon on the Mount Children's Sunday School Lesson -
Let Your Yes be Yes… Being a Person People Can Trust
Use this
children’s Sunday School lesson about not swearing to teach kids to keep their
word.
Needed: Bibles, cookies or
other small prizes in paper bags or boxes
Game: Promises, Promises
Set a cookie or small prize in individual paper bags or under individual boxes. In this game show type activity, call one student contestant forward. They are the Prize Giver for the round. That student (the Prize Giver) can then choose two more student contestants to come forward. They are the Promisers.
The Prize Giver chooses one of the bags and, without opening it, asks
what the Promisers will do for them if
they will give one of them the prize inside the bag. The Promisers can make up anything they want, but
they can only promise one thing. The Prize Giver then chooses their favorite
promise and gives that student the bag with the prize inside.
Play until every student has had a chance to play both roles and every
student has won a prize.
Lesson
Ask students, Can any of you think of a time when someone promised you something or told you that they were going to do something but then didn’t do it? (Allow students to share. If you can think of an appropriate example when this happened to you, you should also share.)
How did it make you feel when that person broke their promise to you?
Have you ever broken a promise you made to someone?
(Read Matthew 5:33-37.)
Jesus says not to swear. What does it mean to swear?
Sometimes, swearing means saying bad words. But swearing also means
making promises. Someone might make a promise by saying, “I swear on my
mother’s grave” or “I swear that if I don’t do something, you can have my
favorite toy.”
When Jesus lived, people swore by things like Heaven and Earth and
their cities and their own heads. They would say things like, “I swear I’ll do
this, and if I don’t, then Heaven will
come down, or the Earth will crack, or our city will be destroyed, or my head
will fall off.” Do you think those things would really happen if someone didn’t
do what they said they would?
Can you make Heaven come down or make the Earth crack, or make our city
get destroyed, or make your head fall off just by breaking a promise? (Of
course not!)
Take a piece of your hair. Pull out just one piece. Now, hold that
piece of hair out in front of you and think real hard. Try to make that piece
of hair change to a different color.
You can’t do it. Jesus says that we shouldn’t swear because we can’t
make things happen. We can’t make Heaven come down, or the Earth crack or our city be destroyed, or our head fall
off. We can’t even change the color of our own hair. Only God can do those
things! So, for us to swear about them is just silly. And it’s also disrespectful
to God because we’re making it sound like we can do something that only He can
do.
So, if we shouldn’t swear, what should we do?
(Read Matthew 5:37 again.)
Jesus says that we should let our “Yes” be yes and our “No” no. That
means that if we say we will do something, we should do it. We don’t have to
swear about it. We don’t have to make promises about it. We should simply say
if we will do something or not and then, make sure we do or don’t do what we
said.
If we always do what we say we’re going to do, then people will know
that they can trust us, and we won’t have to make promises or swear for people
to believe us.
Remember: Don’t swear; simply answer honestly and then, do what you
said you would. Then, people will trust you.
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